Christopher Hinkle, leaning on St. John of the Cross writes something in his article "A DELICATE KNOWLEDGE: EPISTEMOLOGY, HOMOSEXUALITY, AND ST. JOHN OF THE CROSS" that I really like:
"Specifically, one must be prepared to leave behind homosexuality if it
does not genuinely contribute to a growing awareness of God's presence.
Of course the same standard is to be applied to all activities and
convictions, particularly to the creation and enforcement of anti-gay